Nov 22, 2015
There's a parable that reminds us that there are two wolves inside us all. One is evil (anger, jealousy, greed and resentment). The other is good (joy, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy and bravery). The question is, which one wins? At least, that's what Eric Zimmer of The One You Feed podcast likes to ask his...
Nov 15, 2015
Bad habits can be hard to change or moderate, but there are small steps you can take to make it easier to change a bad habit into a good one, or at least, a little less "bad".
Also, I received an email with a heartwarming story of inspiration where someone finally realized she had a choice - and she made that choice! It...
Nov 8, 2015
Our emotions are attached to our memories. Our memories are
attached to people and stuff. It's that stuff that we hold on to
that sometimes makes us feel bad, so why do we still have it in our
lives? Pictures are a great example of this. Why keep pictures that
make you feel bad?
Also, in any relationship, the role of...
Nov 1, 2015
Stepping out of the details so that you can see a bigger picture is one of the best ways to end an argument. When you "chunk up" into a broader perspective instead of staying "chunked down" and embroiled in the details, you're able to step out of all the negative emotional energy about the situation.
For the Ask Paul...